Why Investing in Travel is a Must

Recently, I've found myself reflecting on the essence of travel, the pure joy it brings, and it's got me thinking a lot about treating ourselves to our own adventure.

I've noticed how unusual it feels to budget for self-indulgence, especially when it involves carving out time for solo travel. It's not something my mom ever did, and it seems like society doesn't put emphasis on it. I have a vivid memory of an early conversation with my financial advisor and dear friend, Harriett. It was an eye-opener…she gently pointed out that I was missing out on planning for something special just for myself—travel, to be exact! It's funny how, in our fifties and beyond, doors of possibilities can unexpectedly swing open in our minds, doors we might have easily overlooked before. All it took was a gentle nudge to consider doing something different.

Taking solo time for ourselves is a profound act of self-love. It's about leaning into what brings us joy and celebrating life in our own unique ways. I never gave much thought to setting aside money specifically for travel until Harriett suggested it, and now, I find myself daydreaming about the incredible experiences, perspectives, and friendships it has gifted me (I’m currently plotting a bucket list trip to witness the Northern Lights in Norway—I’m not sure when, but it’s happening!)

Thinking about this, I came across this fascinating article from “The Wall Street Journal” about taking vacations without your partner. What intrigued me is that the majority of married solo travelers are women, motivated by a keen desire to experience the world, even if their partners aren't as excited about the destination. It's about more than just the journey—it's a quest for independence, new friendships, and a sense of freedom that comes with traveling solo.

This reinforces the idea that a Detour is not just a trip…it's a transformative experience that aligns with the evolving ways we seek fulfillment and joy:

Return a kinder, gentler, and more compassionate person.

Become more engaged with your life and relationships.

Shift your perspective.

Gain clarity on where you are in your life.

Feel more confident in yourself.

Make new friendships, and feel a greater sense of community and connection.

I truly believe that travel is not just an expense but an investment in our overall well-being, a way to shift our perspective and create lasting memories. It's incredible to see how taking time for oneself is becoming a meaningful trend, fostering personal growth and happiness. Taking a Detour may just be the catalyst for your next chapter of personal discovery and the gateway to unforgettable adventures.

If you're considering traveling solo while in a partnership, discuss the benefits with you partner. With Dare, I’m committed to providing an all-inclusive experience where you can savor everything and do nothing but show up as your authentic self—trust me, it's a game-changer. And if budgeting is a concern, there's always the option of a flexible payment plan, making it more manageable for everyone involved.

I truly want everyone to experience the joy of travel, exploring the destinations they’ve always dreamed of and uncovering new places. I hope to see you out there, Darlings!