I’ve been thinking a lot about the adventures I’m still hoping to schedule before Montana’s winter weather hits. And also, I’ve been very reflective about the amazing experiences I’ve had so far this year, some in far-flung places, and what would be additive. It got me thinking…

Have you ever heard of your Saturn return? It's an astrological phenomenon that is said to happen around the age of 27, which interestingly enough, is the exact time when I made my big move to New York City. And now, I find myself in the midst of my second Saturn return, which is believed to be a time of major transformation in our lives.

Ah, a good summer read.

There’s nothing like spending a lazy afternoon (or day at the beach!) immersing ourselves in stories, ideas, and knowledge. I’ve always been an avid reader, I usually read in the morning and have several books going at once.

Sometimes, life throws us unexpected curveballs. Last week, I embarked on a Detour into the breathtaking Beartooth Mountains of southwest Montana. Accompanied by a group of amazing women - my Daring Darlings - this journey turned out to be a deeply personal experience.

Have you heard about the loneliness pandemic?

Today I wanted to talk about the challenging, humbling, and oftentimes lonely adventure life hands you as an adult woman: making friends.

Who’s who and the importance of safety.

Taking the time to explore a new place, whether close to home or far away, brings new perspectives and insights. It also pushes you out of your comfort zone a little (or a lot).

Summer has officially arrived here in Montana! But no matter where you are, summer is an excellent time to take advantage of getting out in nature. Here are some of my current favorite ways to get you #GirlMoss Summer on!

My recap of a Montana dude ranch experience.

This was my 6th(!) year bringing a group of Darlings to Detour at the Nine Quarter Circle Ranch in Big Sky... and I decided to put a twist on this one.

This isn't a yoga retreat.

But here’s why we Detour. Detours are laboratories for our hearts and souls. They allow us to step out of our day-to-day, release old stories that no longer serve us, and rediscover who we truly are.

First I will say, Morocco is NOT for the faint of heart.

Even though we broke up our daily activities with rest in the shade and unique experiences in amazing places, the heat and seemingly constant exploration on foot were real - I think we averaged close to 16,000 steps/day?! This being said Morocco was both transformational and incredibly humbling.

Let's face it. Everything gets a little harder to recover from as you get older.

Including jetlag.

At the end of the day, there’s no true cure for jet lag other than time and rest, but here are some of my rituals and tips for long-haul flights that help ease the change into new time zones:

As a 57-year-old woman, I’ve seen a lot of life and a lot of change. But mostly, I’ve come to appreciate the importance of Detours in life. Through them, I’ve encountered many opportunities to grow and evolve. I know that taking risks is often essential to finding true fulfillment, and travel is a great way to do that. So now, I seek them out actively.

Every Detour is a journey of self-discovery and growth.

I find that the best way to maximize the impact of the work I do with the group is to take a solo trip to reflect and integrate my learnings.

I spoke at the Bridger Women's Club about the importance of sharing our stories. I shared my personal story with the women who gathered, women of all ages and financial backgrounds. And I wanted to remind YOU how discovering your story — no matter where you are in life — is important

YOU are your own walking vision board.

“Beyond the paper and the prayers, the to-do list, and the wanting, there is you, all of you. You are a walking vision board.”

A solo female travel experience is incredible for the soul — at any age.

I am deeply passionate about this and believe it to my core. Providing safe and meaningful opportunities for women to experience travel is the intention behind Dare to Detour and it's at the root of our mission.

Do you ever find yourself thinking…?

I want to design the next chapter of my life on my terms. But I'm worried that it's too late to start.

But it will change your life.

Detouring has become my religion.

Why?

Because Detours shift perspective.

You might be wondering why I chose Morocco as a place to travel as a woman.

And why do I think Morocco is such an important place for us to Detour?

Why you can (and should) make a travel budget.

Are budgets your B*&%$ or your BFF? For most of my adult life budgets have been a B*&%$. In 2022 I made the decision to make a major shift, and step by step, I've been turning that B*&%$ into my BFF.

So what have I learned?